Have you found your unique erotic style?

Many of us–especially femme-folk–have been taught NOT to trust our own pleasure and we end up feeling unfulfilled and uninspired in our sex lives. We know more pleasure must be possible, but we don’t know where to start.

When it comes to sex, one size does NOT fit all. We are diverse and complex creatures, influenced by our society, our past experiences, our family, etc. and we all have a unique erotic style. Knowing yours is the key to having the best sex possible.

Tools from today’s leading sexperts

Make the Love You Want synthesizes the most up-to-date research on sex, desire, and the body so you don’t have to. With these practices and techniques, you’ll learn more about yourself, effective communication, and sex, making you a better lover while also enhancing your pleasure in the bedroom. Through the online course and group coaching calls, you’ll discover: 

• How to notice your bodily sensations, attune to your desire, and follow your intuition into satisfying sensual connection with yourself and a partner.

• Your unique erotic style: what turns you on, what turns you off, and what you really want in your intimate life.

• Techniques to communicate your desires with your partner and potential partners, and to understand their desires.

• How to keep it sexy when giving feedback during sex so you get what you really want without ruining the mood.

A new erotic paradigm

If you’re like most people, you’ve received negative messages about sex your whole life, leaving you with a deep-seated concept that sex is shameful or not important. This shame might be so ingrained that you aren’t conscious of the ways you shut yourself down in sex and intimacy. Part of you wants to have awesome sex, but you don’t quite know how. You don’t even really know what you want, so how could you get it? Or maybe you DO know what you want, but you struggle with shame and discomfort when communicating or exploring your desires.

In Make the Love You Want, you will go through an initiation of erotic discovery with the support of other femme-folk. Exploring the past, you will reveal aspects of your erotic style, including how you form attachments and the kinds of things you want to feel during sex. Then, with attention to your present, you will attune to your boundaries and pleasures. You will gain insight into your core erotic desires. Looking to the future, you learn skills that help you express yourself and communicate effectively with your partners and potential partners. By the end of this course, you will know exactly what turns you on, what turns you off, how to communicate effectively with your partner(s), and how to have mind-blowing sexual experiences that light up and excite YOU.

Your journey to self

I want this kind of transformation and growth to be more accessible to more people. Sex and relationship coaching is invaluable, but for this kind of discovery can easily cost $4000 or more, and can take a lot of time. Not all of us have those kinds of resources. In this course, you go at your own pace and at your own convenience and with the support of the group. Plus, it’s a whole lot more affordable.